MARRIAGE IS NOT THE ONLY SOLUTION. YOU ARE!
Marriage is a fancy thing! So it should be treated as a fancy thing when it comes to tie the knot. Why? The answer is very simple. It is because people shouldn’t make haste in getting married in today’s world. In the history of India’s marriage system we saw many unwilling events happening to girls mostly after they get hitched. That is because the people have become so updated with trends and fast going world that they have no time left to deal with the emotional part. That is why today this article is to uplift those people who have been forced to marry or are being forced. This is something which you should do in order to restrain your respect when the time is not right.
We have seen that most parts of India make marriage big deal. Try to impose that on girls in order to get them married with some kind of myths like- “you are ageing”, “a girl shouldn’t remain in the house for so long” and etc. The question that arises here is that why on earth girls are taken as something to be gets married to as immediately as attained the age of 25? Is it so mandatory in this society?
So girls, please be strong and try to stand on your feet first. The system of living alone after you get job should prevail so that nobody can even point out anything to you. When the time is right you can have the big day fixed and make it a memorable one. Without getting ready for something makes things go even more complicated because that is the part where you can do nothing but end it up with a knot of humiliation in this society. Stop thinking of what people will say and step forward to your own life because life is worth more than what you have heard of that it should be. Create a world where you can say “NO” to what you want to. Marriage at the time when you are not ready is not healthy for people because that will turn you into sacrificing your life forever. Compromises are not always needed until and unless you don’t think it’s not a compromise don’t ever nod the head to it.
Girls are here to do more than what they are taught to do. The world is changing and we should be a part of it to make the change and keep it intact.
